Patterns

He broke up with a girl. She liked him, she was convinced he is in love with her. She did not wish to let go. He knew he did not feel much, but gave it a shot.

Often, I have linked him to my ex. It is strange, but I feel he holds the key to my relationships.

In breaking up with her, in staying away from her, he has done it. He has broken the pattern. He did what I convinced her to not do. I convinced her to date me, thus a great cycle of Karma began. Funny how both couples met in the same place.

I empathise with her. I know how it feels to be unloved, perhaps she feels this way too. I also know it is in her interest that a man who did not love her let her go. She deserves to be loved. He deserves to love.

The heart is heavy. Give it time.