man and woman have an essence that covers the self. women can have a sad essence, men anger(?). men love to absorb the sad essence if it means they see happiness

annimation of a character, outline, man is thecolor of autumn, woman is purple blue water paint, man sees sad woman, sucks sadness, becomes sad but seeing the woman now herself makes him happy. she had to bd herself to let the sadness out, be free. that needs trust. and so perhaps when man cant see the woman herself he stops being himself. gets angry, irritated. like a little boy missing his mother